{"id":98508,"date":"2017-02-13T02:00:59","date_gmt":"2017-02-13T10:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/?p=98508"},"modified":"2020-08-06T08:41:34","modified_gmt":"2020-08-06T15:41:34","slug":"how-to-keep-your-relationship-spicy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/how-to-keep-your-relationship-spicy\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Easy Ways to Refresh Your Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"

Michael and I have known each other since\u00a0sixth grade<\/a>, w<\/span>hich means we\u2019ve known each other for a pretty long time. Being in a relationship for that long we get asked all the time how we keep it fresh and interesting. There are a few things that Michael and I have found really works for us to keep it spicy inside and outside the bedroom. Whether you\u2019re in a romantic relationship or not, these tips will improve all of your relationships!<\/span><\/p>\n

Open communication is incredibly important.<\/strong> You have to consistently check in with each other to make sure that they are happy. You can\u2019t be complacent and just assume that everything is fine. Really get to know your partner and figure out ways you can make them <\/span>happier every day<\/span><\/a>! It sounds simple, but it\u2019s powerful. The little things really do make all of the difference. I love when Michael leaves me a note in the morning. Hint, hint hunny.<\/span><\/p>\n

Spend your time doing activities together.<\/strong> Michael and I are constantly looking for new activities to do together to keep it fresh and to learn new things side by side. Michael and I love to read and he always suggests the <\/span>best books<\/span><\/a>. I\u2019ve gotten Michael to take all different kinds of yoga classes, we\u2019ve tried <\/span>cryotherapy<\/span><\/a>, went\u00a0<\/span>skiing<\/span><\/a>,\u00a0<\/span>worked out together<\/span><\/a>, <\/span>cooked<\/span><\/a>, rode bikes, gone skydiving, walked <\/span>our dogs<\/span><\/a>, written, <\/span>podcasted<\/span><\/a>, and\u00a0<\/span>traveled<\/span><\/a>. Whatever it is, doing and learning new things with your partner really strengthens the bond. We are even thinking about taking French classes together soon!<\/span><\/p>\n

Keep the love life strong!!!<\/strong> Constantly compliment your partner. Tell them how <\/span>good looking they are<\/span><\/a>. Make an <\/span>effort<\/span><\/a> to keep it spicy. Introduce new things into the bedroom (whatever you want). When you first move in together, the sex can dwindle because of the close proximity. Don\u2019t get lazy, keep it spicy. If it feels like it\u2019s cooling down, it\u2019s time to try new things, unexpected things!<\/span><\/p>\n

Travel<\/a><\/strong>!<\/strong> I know I always preach travel and I know it\u2019s not always easy to just up and leave but here\u2019s the secret: any type of travel works! Go on a road trip! Go camping on the weekend! Fly across the world! Go somewhere! Anywhere<\/em>. Look at the cost as an investment in your futures. Whenever Michael and I travel together (even if I make fun of him for being “panicky Susan”), we always come back closer and more in love. <\/span>Discovering the world<\/span><\/a> with your significant other is one of the greatest things you can do. <\/span><\/p>\n

Get out of your normal routine.<\/strong> Michael and I \u00a0have recently introduced random date nights. We alternate on a weekly basis with a surprise date on a surprise day. Sometimes it\u2019s as simple as dinner and a movie. Other times, it\u2019s cooking <\/span>breakfast<\/span><\/a> leisurely at home. Maybe even Disneyland for fireworks! Whatever it is, this keeps it really lively and surprising. Plus it\u2019s super fun to force Michael out of his comfort zone and to be spontaneous. <\/span><\/p>\n

These tips have been really useful for our relationship and I hope they help you keep it spicy and exciting. We have been together for a long time now and will continue to try and keep it \u201cfresh\u201d every day!<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013 Lauryn, x<\/p>\n

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