{"id":168527,"date":"2021-04-15T02:00:18","date_gmt":"2021-04-15T09:00:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/?p=168527"},"modified":"2021-04-15T08:43:42","modified_gmt":"2021-04-15T15:43:42","slug":"how-to-find-purpose-outside-your-career","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/how-to-find-purpose-outside-your-career\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Find Purpose Outside Your Career"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Attempting to find purpose in life is as natural as breathing for many of us. It\u2019s what\u2019s driven us to explore the moon, make art, develop medicine, and connect with one another. For many of us &#8212; especially millennials, who <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/fact-tank\/2020\/04\/28\/millennials-overtake-baby-boomers-as-americas-largest-generation\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">officially make up<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> the greatest percentage of the working population in the U.S. &#8212; it\u2019s easy to default to finding purpose in our careers. After all, we\u2019re told to go to school so we can get good jobs and then <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hustle, hustle, hustle\u00a0<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">as if that\u2019s the end-all, be-all to happiness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The problem is, making work our primary fulfillment in life is dangerous business. You can get let go from a job. In some cases, you can lose the ability to even <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">do <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">your job. Maybe you wake up one day and realize you\u2019re simply not satisfied with your work anymore. What then?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If none of that happens and you\u2019re happy with your job forever, that\u2019s great! But even for the most career-driven among us, there <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">has<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">be more to life than work. There\u2019s a principle in investing called <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">diversification<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Investopedia <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.investopedia.com\/investing\/importance-diversification\/#:~:text=What%20Is%20Diversification%20in%20Investing,differently%20to%20the%20same%20event.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">defines<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> diversification as &#8220;<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a technique that reduces risk by allocating investments across various financial instruments, industries, and other categories.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Basically, diversification keeps you from losing everything if you lose one thing. It can also be the golden ticket to optimal returns because there\u2019s a chance everything will go <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">very right <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">at once, providing you with all the benefits you\u2019d get if one investment was flourishing, plus however many investments you have out there.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, how can you apply diversification to your life and find purpose that has nothing to do with work? Of course, you can simply focus more on familial relationships, hobbies, social interaction, and more. But if you want to truly solidify a diversified sense of purpose rather than just doing a lot of other things, here are some tips:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Take Stock<br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first step to diversifying your purpose is identifying the areas of life that are most important to you. Harvard Business Review recommends <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2020\/05\/do-you-have-a-life-outside-of-work\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">an excellent exercise<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">* that can (very methodically) help you take stock of relationships with the greatest impact on your fulfillment and then shift critical behaviors to accentuate that sense.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Realize You Don\u2019t Have to Have It All Figured Out<br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When dealing with something as important as <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">our very purpose in life<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> it can be really easy to get frustrated when we\u2019re not <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">getting it. It might seem like everyone else has a purpose, but realize<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0that your path is different than that of literally every person around you. It might be slower or more indirect than you want it to be &#8212; and that\u2019s OK! Focus on the small victories, which leads to our next point\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>See (and Celebrate) the Moments You Feel Most Fulfilled<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Have you ever been doing something totally random and thought, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWow, I feel amazing right now\u201d<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? Lean into those moments. Be present. Do a quick mind-and-body scan. How does your head feel? Your arms? Your stomach? Your legs? What\u2019s your state of mind? Who\u2019s around you? Even in seemingly insignificant moments, answering those questions may be the key that unlocks the door to long-term fulfillment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Create Opportunities for Small Transitions<br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s not news that humans feel satisfied when we accomplishing things. We\u2019re not talking like, winning the gold in the Olympics or becoming the next Beyonc\u00e9. Something as small as doing the dishes, running an errand you\u2019ve been putting off, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/stretches-to-help-with-sitting-all-day\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">moving your body<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or calling your grandma to check in are also accomplishments.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When we only have one avenue by which to feel a sense of achievement (like work), that sense can grow stale. By contrast, change stretches us. It may be uncomfortable, but life transitions are often the most effective way to create long-standing fulfillment.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Create opportunities in your everyday life to challenge yourself, whether it be your habits, your perception of the world, your relationships. Intentionally shake things up every once in a while, and don\u2019t forget to be gentle with yourself in the process!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here\u2019s wishing you a full, purposeful life. Do you have any tips on finding purpose beyond your career? Let us know in the comments below!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">xx, The FabFitFun Team<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\">*Refer to the section titled, \u201cShift just one activity to create diverse purpose-generating interactions.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":"Attempting to find purpose in life is as natural as breathing for many of us. ...","author":7532754,"featured_media":168528,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[260],"tags":[],"thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/static.fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/11160332\/Finding-Purpose-in-Life.jpg","thumbnail_url_middle_card":"https:\/\/static.fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/11160332\/Finding-Purpose-in-Life-386x200.jpg","formated_date":"April 15, 2021","category_name":"Life","category_icon":"https:\/\/d3vodd1ws13xud.cloudfront.net\/magazine\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/10113832\/entertainment.svg","author_name":"Emma Cloutier","trending":false,"sponsored":false,"random_color":"#dd6ad4","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168527"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7532754"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=168527"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/168527\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/168528"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=168527"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=168527"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=168527"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}