{"id":152986,"date":"2020-05-29T02:00:23","date_gmt":"2020-05-29T09:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/?p=152986"},"modified":"2020-08-05T11:10:50","modified_gmt":"2020-08-05T18:10:50","slug":"how-to-date-in-quarantine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/how-to-date-in-quarantine\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Guide to Dating While in Quarantine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dating during a pandemic can seem <em>odd<\/em>. We&#8217;re not entirely sure when life will feel normal again, therefore we are forced to forgo in-person date nights with the <a href=\"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/dating-app-mistakes\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">cutie from Hinge<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The single life is fabulous, don&#8217;t get us wrong. But it&#8217;s refreshing when you find someone that can complement you (not <em>complete<\/em>\u00a0you) &#8212; which is why we&#8217;ve put together some tips for finding your forever and always during the quarantine.<\/p>\n<p><strong>First, let&#8217;s discuss the benefits of single life during coronavirus<br \/>\n<\/strong>According to an article from the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2020\/05\/07\/well\/mind\/dating-coronavirus-love-relationships.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>New York Times<\/em><\/a>, &#8220;This pandemic has solved, if temporarily, two of the most challenging aspects of contemporary dating: sex and money,&#8221; says Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist. How so? Well, there&#8217;s no more stumbling into an awkward kiss or looking at the check with panic in your eyes. &#8220;In the age of corona, these negotiations are history.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Also, a new type of courtship is underway and it&#8217;s actually delaying the whole <em>matrimony thing<\/em>. Singles are taking things slow and spending time getting to know a person, which is &#8220;saving singles time and money as well as enabling many to kiss fewer frogs. Bizarre as it sounds, this pandemic may lead to happier and more enduring partnerships in the post-corona age,&#8221; says Fisher.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Communicate with your potential partners<br \/>\n<\/strong>If you\u2019re rolling solo, it\u2019s ideal to talk about your feelings even more with potential partners. We know that singles are using dating apps during this time, so if that\u2019s you, make sure to be real with those you\u2019re meeting. Having honest conversations with potential partners is a great way to stoke the love and establish a strong foundation for a future relationship.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Plan a date night<br \/>\n<\/strong>Yes, you can still make time for togetherness with that cutie you\u2019ve had your eye on. \u201cPeople can still connect and meet; we just have to be smart about it and take a different approach,\u201d says <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amiethedatingcoach.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Amie Leadingham<\/a>, a master certified relationship coach. \u201cSlow down to speed up. This is actually forcing us to slow down, get to know each other, and have deeper conversations.\u201d So if you\u2019re all about dating smart, try this:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Schedule a FaceTime dinner date with drinks.<\/li>\n<li>Watch a movie together using <a href=\"https:\/\/www.netflixparty.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Netflix Party<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Virtually explore some of your <a href=\"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/virtual-tours\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">favorite museums<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Try cooking together from afar.<\/li>\n<li>Pick a <a href=\"https:\/\/fabfitfun.com\/magazine\/new-books-by-top-rated-authors\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">book<\/a> to read together, then make time once a week to talk about.<\/li>\n<li>Make a quarantine playlist for your special someone and then listen to it together.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Don&#8217;t force it either<br \/>\n<\/strong>Quarantine or not, that feeling of idleness is palpable at any given time. However, don&#8217;t rush into something you&#8217;re not ready for just to cure the lonesome blues. Fisher suggests abiding by the rule of nine when dating online and IRL. &#8220;Some [researchers] have found that after being offered about six options, we burn out \u2014 a condition known as cognitive overload or the paradox of choice. Other researchers note that our short-term memory system can\u2019t embrace more than five to nine stimuli at once.&#8221; In other words, after about nine matches &#8212; take a step back and get to know these people. If someone doesn&#8217;t work out, it&#8217;s probably for the best. Now you have more time and energy to focus on those more natural connections.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Embrace the weird<br \/>\n<\/strong>We know that traditional romancing is no longer the norm. We can swipe, swipe, swipe into the late hours of the evening. Plus, you don&#8217;t even have to leave your bed to test the chemistry. However, being confined to virtual dating (and virtual dating only!) makes us feel weird and confused rather than warm and fuzzy. With that being said, it&#8217;s OK to embrace the weird that comes coupled with dating during these complicated times.<\/p>\n<p>With these tips, we know you&#8217;ll master this newly found dating era with no problem.<\/p>\n<p>xx, The FabFitFun Team<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":"Dating during a pandemic can seem odd. 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